September 28th, 2008

I was born in Canton, Ohio on March 1969. I was adopted into a wonderful Hungarian/Siren Family; whom I cherish dearly. I as well, have a wonderful 15 year old daughter. She is undoubtedly my guiding star.
My mother and daughter have endured alot over the course of the past two years. It has meant the world to me, that they have been lovingly by my side. Unconditionally showing me their support and Love. My family has been my guiding light throughout my journey with Cancer, and I would like to send my unconditional thoughts of Love and Praise.
It’s with great sadness that I bring the news of the passing of a Dear Friend who is coincidentally named Rebecca Ann. She was known by all who knew and loved her as Becca. She was only 36 years old and she fought Melanoma avidly, with gracious vigor.
We had actually met, after much confusion in the clinical lobby at the National Cancer Institute. There were four Rebecca’s in the lobby that day awaiting to see the Doctor’s. It’s an odd coincidence, but none-the-less, one that was meant to be. I had in all actuality, thought that it was her sister who had been diagnosed with Melanoma. Becca was so lively the entire wait, you would never have known that she was the patient.
We had corresponded for months and had asked the Doctor’s at the National Cancer Institute if we could do our IL-2 Cancer treatments at the same time. Our research nurse was more than happy to make this happen.
Our online community of family and friends, at www.mpip.org (Melanoma Patients Information Page; cheered us both on, during this difficult treatment. We became known, as “the IL-2 Queens”. We supported one another throughout this treatment and beyond.
I know, that I have been given a wonderful opportunity to share my story. I feel that it would be unfair and unjust to speak of myself, solely. My Life has forever been touched by Becca.
If you were to visit the Mpip bulletin board today, you would see, what a grave impact she had on the Melanoma community. Many other’s, have, as well; aided in my discovery of new treatment options. They have given support, when very little was given or asked of them.
I feel honored and privileged to tell you, not only my story and journey through a Cancer diagnosis, but many other’s who have lite the way. They are the true heroes and heroines of the day. It is in great Memory and Dedication, that I submit to you this:
The Power is in YOU! The power was in Becca to help guide me through a very difficult Cancer Treatment. She was sent here, to be by my side. To fight, alongside; myself, and countless other Melanoma Cancer Patients.
I believe in the greatness that surrounds our lives. I believe that everything happens for a reason. My Melanoma diagnosis is a blessing in disguise. I have learned to live stronger, hold on longer, and fight harder.
My be-loved friend, Becca, is a Melanoma Angel. She is watching me from Heaven above. I look forward to the day, that I may say: Thank-You. You touched my Life.
A Cancer patients journey in Life is one paved with great emotional awareness and zest. We learn to look at Life through a different perspective. I believe, that Cancer can be our cure. Our cure to Life’s ailments and strides. We have been given a gift. A gift; of LIFE. To learn to truly Live.
Thank all of your reader’s for helping raise an awareness. Early detection can and does save Lives. See your dermatologist. Get your yearly Doctor check-up’s. Let everyone know, “it’s NOT JUST” skin cancer. It’s Melanoma, a deadly form of Cancer.
May all those who have fought the good fight and all those who continue to fight the good fight LIVESTRONG and forever long; they with forever be in our hearts, mind, body, and soul.
As far as benefit fundraising… The Melanoma Research Foundation. Dr. Rosenberg at the National Cancer Institute in Bethesda, MD. He is determined to find the Cure for Melanoma. On a more personal note: I want to help outreach to Melanoma Patients/Families in Financial need. It is TRULY very difficult to find resources and funds for your Living Expenses while trying to fight this battle. I’d like to help financial aide those in need ~ A program needs to be made… where the INDIVIDUAL ~ Cancer patient gets the funds needed to help them with their monthly expenses while off work and fighting this battle.
I wish Peace to all in your journey and path through Life. Discover yourself. Live your Life. Make your Dreams come true and hold on tight.
Kind Regards, Becky (stage IV Malignant Metastatic Melanoma patient and warrior)
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